How to Increase Your Chances of Conceiving Quickly
For a very lucky few, it takes a cycle or two. For most of us, it take months (the average TTC (trying-to-conceive) timeline is at least 6 months or so), and for others it may even take more than a year.
Our parents likely had us when they were in the early or mid 20s. Today, the average age of TTC women is closer to 30. Add work and increasingly stressful lifestyles and TTC is not as easy as it was for earlier generations - that much is sure!
Here's a quick Baby-Making 101 primer to help increase your odds of conceiving! (click the links to learn more about each of the categories listed)
Tracking Ovulation
Much of this website is dedicated to predicting ovulation. Ovulation is the period of peak fertility. Ovulation and pregnancy go hand in hand and the fertilization of the egg following ovulation leads to pregnancy. Therefore, awareness of your fertility cycle is the first step on the path to pregnancy. Every woman's cycle is unique (some cycles are short, some are long) and fertility awareness begins with monitoring your menstrual cycle and being attentive to ovulation symptoms.
Your most fertile period starts about 4 or 5 days before ovulation, and ends about 24 hours following the release of the egg. Because the sperm can live in a woman's body for 5 days or so, a woman's fertile period is actually longer than the 24 hour live-span of the ovum. To increase your chances of conceiving and becoming pregnant, predicting the days of peak fertility - and more specifically predicting the date of ovulation - is key.
Symptoms of Ovulation
Learn to "read your body" for natural signs of ovulation. These include changes in cervical mucus, changes in cervical position, and ovulation pains (mittelschmerz).
Cervical Mucus
Directly prior to ovulation, cervical fluid will increase greatly, and now the mucus will be semi-transparent, slippery, with the consistency of "raw egg white". This is your most fertile period and ovulation will take place at about this time.
Ovulation Pain (Mittelschmerz)
Ovulation signs include pains, or Mittelschmerz, which occur right around the time you ovulate. The pain is centered around your lower abdomen, and may last anywhere from a few hours to days. Ovulation pains can be used as a secondary fertility sign-that is, taken with the many other symptoms of ovulation, these pains will create a more accurate representation of your fertility.
Basal Body Temperature
As part of fertility charting, the BBT method requires you to monitor your temperature every morning, first thing! Body temperature changes are due to the increase of progesterone in your system. At the onset of ovulation, your body temperature will rise between 0.4°F and 0.8°F - or more. The physiological purpose of the temperature increase is to create a warmer, more fertile environment for the fertilized egg. A BBT thermal shift tells you that ovulation has taken place. It's important to record this data (as well as other symptoms of fertility) with a fertility chart. Observing patterns in you fertility charts allow you to predict peak fertility. Buy a basal thermometer (commonly mispelled as "basil thermometer").
Ovulation Calendar
An ovulation calendar allows you to understand your ovulation cycle. Like fertility charting, the ovulation calendar method allows you to chart your fertility and recognize general patterns in fertile and infertile phases. The calendar method involves keeping a written record and helps you predict ovulation by understanding the history of your menstrual cycles. An ovulation calendar or calculator, is most useful for women whose menstrual cycles are regular. For women with irregular cycles, we recommend the ovulation microscope.
Ovulation Tests - OPKs and Saliva Tests
Ovulation Predictor Kits (OPK) can be used during the middle of your cycle, prior to ovulation to anticipate and predict fertility. OPKs work by detecting an increase in luteinizing hormone (LH) in your urine. Before ovulation, you will notice a spike in LH. The rise in LH occurs approximately 36 hours before ovulation, indicating peak fertility. The best time to use these tests is between 2 and 8 p.m. First morning urine is not recommended. Having intercourse the day of the LH spike and the two days after should help ensure a successful pregnancy.
Ovulation microscopes test your saliva to help indicate your most fertile time of month. During ovulation, the rise in estrogen increases the salinity of your saliva. This alters the composition of your saliva and forms crystalline structures (ferns or ferning patterns) that can be seen through an ovulation microscope. Test saliva first thing in the morning, before drinking water, brushing teeth or eating. Record the results in your fertility chart. A combination of ovulation testing methods is the best way to focus on fertility.
Fertility Supplements
Newer to the ttc world, fertility supplements are scientifically validated to help support both male and female fertility. Combining the best of herbal science and western medicine, fertility supplements like FertilAid or Fertility Blend integrate key vitamins and minerals central to a healthy preconception with science-base herbal formulations that supports successful conception. With a safe history of usage, clinical data reveals that these nutritional ingredients are effective and successful in helping couples conceive.
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Comments
Me and my hus trying to get a child as early as possible . since 3 months cotinusioly contacting but not getting a baby . what is the wrong in this ? can u explaine about this? I am a 28 _ 30 days of regular menstrutating cycle women .
hey guys
just to let you all know not to take birth control pills, because it kills your ability to have kids . just use the condom
The first day of my last period was May 26. My fertility date starts June 3-8 including ovulation. If I had sex on June 1st. Is there a possibility for me to become pregnant, sense its so close to my fertility days?
My partner & I have been trying to conceive for the last 3 months & believe me when I tell u I would have never though it would take this long to get pregnant. I'm really not sure what to do, I see so many pregnant woman walking around that it makes me think what's wrong with me. All I can say is (its fun trying to get pregnant) & I'm going to leave here on a good note & wish everyone that is trying the best of luck & Have Faith
anonymous writer:
Dont stress to much my aunty has endometriosis and she has two beautiful girls, the docter was very surprised she was able to conceive but she did. I think its just meant to be. And those people with all the kids and dont really care or see how great they have it will one day realize what blessings they have. My sister actually cannot have kids due to a heart condition and it makes me so sad to think that she can never experience the joy of having a child. Me and my husband are trying to have a baby and it scares the shit out of me to think that i might not be able to have kids cause who would my sister be able to spoil and be the best aunty she can be to them. So just think of the positive and positive things will happen to you. I hope that chears you up
Hi there. my husband and I got married about two years ago and wanted to wait untill we graduated college to start a family. Due to some complications with endometriosis and me not ovulating regularly my ob suggested we start trying now. I feel so overwelmed! And to make matters worse I work at an urgent care where we have a lot of patients come in that really make you wonder "why can she have 5 babies that she doesnt take care of or care about and I cant even have 1 to love and take care of?" I need some tips on how to de-stress because going to work every day is hard. I keep telling myself that its just going to make me appreciate it even more when we do get pregnant and I'm going to strive to be the best mommy I can be because of all the things I have been exposed to but its still so hard to hear people around me talking about how they hate their kids always wanting something . .. blah blah blah. Any advice on how to keep me from blowing up on my co workers?
I have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years... I am 25 and my husband is 31 I always get the ? isn't it time for you two to have a baby
(( yeah yeah How come you don't have kids yet? Blah Blah Blah some people don't understand how hard it is for some people. I've had testing done and everything but nothing so I'm just waiting my turn patiently.... I have a regular cycle every 26 to 30 days. What I did was made myself a calendar just a regular computer made calendar for 6 months.... I track everything I do... I put a star on the day we had sex and when I felt different everything....if you are irregular you can start on the first and TRY to have sex every other day or every two days and then if nothing alternate it the next month odd days only or even days... I really don't know but it's worth a try and if you are like me I am willing to try anything. Like I said you would think I wouldn't have a problem being that I am regular and should know but nope..... What I plan on doing now is trying to forget about having a baby for now because I have been racking my brain with "why I can't get pregnant and what is wrong with me crap. I am 150lbs and have decided that I need to focus on something else and I am going to loose about 15 lbs and get the beach body I've been wanting... I'm thinking if I have concentrated on having a baby as long and as hard as I have that maybe I can get the body I want if I work at it. So then maybe once I do that I will try again.. and then have some luck!!! It's like trying to win the lottery so to speak
So what I'm saying is if you are struggling try something new and different in your life because it's not changing or going to happen when you want it to. BUT I believe that it will happen for me and you one day!!
Me and my husband have been together for six years and we still have no baby. For the ones who get pregnant after one or two cycles of TTC or not trying at all should really be thankful! We have never used BC or any other form of BC. We have also tried the ovulaion strips and got postives but never any luck. I guess it will happen when it happens, but for a couple who is the only one married in both families and still can't concieve it's very very hard! Everyone else has kids and are always popping them out at any age and not married it just hard to not ask WHY? sometimes.
my husband and i were together for a year. we decided to have a baby for 6 months already. we went to the OB and undergone some test, sperm count for my husband and ultrasound for me. She said the result were both normal. she gave a premarin 625mcg 3x a day for 3 mos and zerthrin (mucolytic) for my husband. and she also gave the date we have to make love and that is on every other day. this is really tiring but i think we have to do that because we want to have a baby. Right now, we left our country so we cannot be able to visit our OB. Please help me know how to have a baby.
I'm 21 yrs old and my husband is 25 yrs old trying to conceive. I am currently keeping track of my period and ovulation day. We try some of the five days before ovulation, the day of, as well as a day after, just in case. I used to take birth control and stopped at the beginning of 2009 and we have now decided we'd like to start a family. However it seems harder than what my friends say. I have not been to see a dr yet but am wondering what I can do to speed up this process... is it normal to take a while before actually conceiving? Should I allow more time? Also there's these pills I came across at wal mart don't remember the name but say "for use before, during, and after pregnancy" do you think these would be helpful at all? Your thought or advise would be greatly appreciated!
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