Baby-Making 101: A Primer for Getting Pregnant

How to Increase Your Chances of Conceiving Quickly

Conceiving a baby is not as easy as most people believe. We spend several years of our lives trying to avoid pregnancy through various methods (from the birth control pill to abstinence), and then all of sudden we want to about face and become pregnant overnight!

For a very lucky few, it takes a cycle or two. For most of us, it take months (the average TTC (trying-to-conceive) timeline is at least 6 months or so), and for others it may even take more than a year.

Our parents likely had us when they were in the early or mid 20s. Today, the average age of TTC women is closer to 30. Add work and increasingly stressful lifestyles and TTC is not as easy as it was for earlier generations - that much is sure!

Here's a quick Baby-Making 101 primer to help increase your odds of conceiving! (click the links to learn more about each of the categories listed)

Tracking Ovulation
Much of this website is dedicated to predicting ovulation. Ovulation is the period of peak fertility. Ovulation and pregnancy go hand in hand and the fertilization of the egg following ovulation leads to pregnancy. Therefore, awareness of your fertility cycle is the first step on the path to pregnancy. Every woman's cycle is unique (some cycles are short, some are long) and fertility awareness begins with monitoring your menstrual cycle and being attentive to ovulation symptoms.

Your most fertile period starts about 4 or 5 days before ovulation, and ends about 24 hours following the release of the egg. Because the sperm can live in a woman's body for 5 days or so, a woman's fertile period is actually longer than the 24 hour live-span of the ovum. To increase your chances of conceiving and becoming pregnant, predicting the days of peak fertility - and more specifically predicting the date of ovulation - is key.

Symptoms of Ovulation
Learn to "read your body" for natural signs of ovulation. These include changes in cervical mucus, changes in cervical position, and ovulation pains (mittelschmerz).

Cervical Mucus
Directly prior to ovulation, cervical fluid will increase greatly, and now the mucus will be semi-transparent, slippery, with the consistency of "raw egg white". This is your most fertile period and ovulation will take place at about this time.

Ovulation Pain (Mittelschmerz)
Ovulation signs include pains, or Mittelschmerz, which occur right around the time you ovulate. The pain is centered around your lower abdomen, and may last anywhere from a few hours to days. Ovulation pains can be used as a secondary fertility sign-that is, taken with the many other symptoms of ovulation, these pains will create a more accurate representation of your fertility.

Basal Body Temperature
As part of fertility charting, the BBT method requires you to monitor your temperature every morning, first thing! Body temperature changes are due to the increase of progesterone in your system. At the onset of ovulation, your body temperature will rise between 0.4°F and 0.8°F - or more. The physiological purpose of the temperature increase is to create a warmer, more fertile environment for the fertilized egg. A BBT thermal shift tells you that ovulation has taken place. It's important to record this data (as well as other symptoms of fertility) with a fertility chart. Observing patterns in you fertility charts allow you to predict peak fertility. Buy a basal thermometer (commonly mispelled as "basil thermometer").

Ovulation Calendar
An ovulation calendar allows you to understand your ovulation cycle. Like fertility charting, the ovulation calendar method allows you to chart your fertility and recognize general patterns in fertile and infertile phases. The calendar method involves keeping a written record and helps you predict ovulation by understanding the history of your menstrual cycles. An ovulation calendar or calculator, is most useful for women whose menstrual cycles are regular. For women with irregular cycles, we recommend the ovulation microscope.

Ovulation Tests - OPKs and Saliva Tests
Ovulation Predictor Kits (OPK) can be used during the middle of your cycle, prior to ovulation to anticipate and predict fertility. OPKs work by detecting an increase in luteinizing hormone (LH) in your urine. Before ovulation, you will notice a spike in LH. The rise in LH occurs approximately 36 hours before ovulation, indicating peak fertility. The best time to use these tests is between 2 and 8 p.m. First morning urine is not recommended. Having intercourse the day of the LH spike and the two days after should help ensure a successful pregnancy.

Ovulation microscopes test your saliva to help indicate your most fertile time of month. During ovulation, the rise in estrogen increases the salinity of your saliva. This alters the composition of your saliva and forms crystalline structures (ferns or ferning patterns) that can be seen through an ovulation microscope. Test saliva first thing in the morning, before drinking water, brushing teeth or eating. Record the results in your fertility chart. A combination of ovulation testing methods is the best way to focus on fertility.

Fertility Supplements
Newer to the ttc world, fertility supplements are scientifically validated to help support both male and female fertility. Combining the best of herbal science and western medicine, fertility supplements like FertilAid or Fertility Blend integrate key vitamins and minerals central to a healthy preconception with science-base herbal formulations that supports successful conception. With a safe history of usage, clinical data reveals that these nutritional ingredients are effective and successful in helping couples conceive.

Related Article: > TTC Checklist

Comments

hi, my first of my last period was 18th july..so wen is my fertile period..i need to know..thanx

Me and my Husband have been trying for 7 years and still no baby. I was diagnosed with pcos about 2 years ago and after a year of meds and diets I've finally started to ovulate.

Me and my husband have been TTC for 7 months now and it seems like a life time. I am 21 & he is 24. He has a beautiful little girl from a past relationship and we want nothing more then to experiance our own child. I was told i had endometrioses (not sure on the spelling) when I was 16 and had surgery to try and fix it but my doctor said "As soon as i decide i want kids I should start trying right away because the chances of me conciving lower every month and I could become completly infertal by the age of 26." When we decided to try I read the book "Take Charge of Your Fertilty" and started charting right way along with prenatals. We BD every other day during my ovulation. Well I had all the right symptoms of ovulation but it says if you have brown discharge at the end of your period you may not produce enough progesterone (the hormone that helps build the endo lining), so i started with natural progesterone cream after i ovulated. Then i realized my CM wasn't as much as it should be so i heard about Evening Primerose oil (i took 3 pills a day until after ovulation) it made tonz of CM but it was THICK! So to thin it i took Robotusin it has an ingredent that helps thin mucus but then it seemed too thin. Still nothing Sad So i started drinking Red Rasspberry tea every day again, nothing. Next i heard about Vitex, its an herb that helps regulate hormones that deal with ovulation and help produce progesterone (i also took it 3x a day). I did all of these for 3 months and yet again nothing. So this month i decided this was way to stressful, so i stopped everything except prenatals. Then i thought what if everything is fine and im worring and that could be throwing off everthing! so the next month i started to ovulate again with ovulation pains with a raised, soft, and open cervix. but no CM Sad so then i heard of a product called Pre-seed, its a lubercant that is just like fertal CM so my Husbands little swimers can get to my egg Smile i hope this works! I'm sure i probably sound crazy for all the stuff I have done but im desperate for a baby! If anyone has any advice or tips please let me know Smile

Me and my partner have been trying for a baby for 2 years now we have both had test from hospital and were both fine, i have irregular periods lasting anything from the first day of my period to the day before the day of my second period can be anything from 28 to 32 days and bleed can be anything from 3 to 7 days and sometimes theres is little bleeding and sonetimes im flooding, how can i calculate when im the most fertile, Were so Frustrated.

hi, since four year of married,we not have a baby ,we have tried a lots ,but still nothing .sometime i became stressfull .please, tell me what to do?

we have been trying to get pregnant for three years, it's not an easy thing esp if the female partner has other underlying health conditions. my sisters seem to get pregnant within a month of starting to try everytime, for us it's not as easy. since we can't afford some of the more extreme options we just have to stay optimistic and hope that others don't lose hope either.

Me and my hus trying to get a child as early as possible . since 3 months cotinusioly contacting but not getting a baby . what is the wrong in this ? can u explaine about this? I am a 28 _ 30 days of regular menstrutating cycle women .

hey guys
just to let you all know not to take birth control pills, because it kills your ability to have kids . just use the condom

The first day of my last period was May 26. My fertility date starts June 3-8 including ovulation. If I had sex on June 1st. Is there a possibility for me to become pregnant, sense its so close to my fertility days?

My partner & I have been trying to conceive for the last 3 months & believe me when I tell u I would have never though it would take this long to get pregnant. I'm really not sure what to do, I see so many pregnant woman walking around that it makes me think what's wrong with me. All I can say is (its fun trying to get pregnant) & I'm going to leave here on a good note & wish everyone that is trying the best of luck & Have Faith Wink

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Note that you are most likely to get pregnant if you time your lovemaking to occur on the days right before - and on - your ovulation date. Keep in mind that the projected ovulation date above is simply a “best guess” estimate based on your cycle date information. The most accurate way to pinpoint your most fertile time is through the use of urine-based ovulation tests or with a fertility monitor. We have partnered with Early-Pregnancy-Tests.com, the Internet’s leading supplier of preconception products since 2001, to offer low-cost, FDA-approved pregnancy and ovulation tests – with free same-day shipping.

 

Now that you’ve calculated your ovulation date using our ovulation calculator, we have a number of other helpful tools you can use to help increase your chances of conceiving.

 

  • Create your own personalized ovulation calendar! You can even provide an email address so that you receive email alerts of your most fertile days, when you can begin testing for pregnancy, and more.
     

  • Create your own personalized fertility chart! This is a highly accurate way to pinpoint your ovulation date that relies primarily on basal temperature charting. (Visit Early-Pregnancy-Tests.com for an accurate, inexpensive basal thermometer.)
     

  • Connect with others at our online community! If you have questions about trying-to-conceive – or if you just want to vent a bit – we have a wonderful, vibrant community of people who’d just love to hear from you.

Find your most fertile time.