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Baby-Making 101: A Primer for Getting Pregnant

How to Increase Your Chances of Conceiving Quickly

Conceiving a baby is not as easy as most people believe. We spend several years of our lives trying to avoid pregnancy through various methods (from the birth control pill to abstinence), and then all of sudden we want to about face and become pregnant overnight!

For a very lucky few, it takes a cycle or two. For most of us, it take months (the average TTC (trying-to-conceive) timeline is at least 6 months or so), and for others it may even take more than a year.

Our parents likely had us when they were in the early or mid 20s. Today, the average age of TTC women is closer to 30. Add work and increasingly stressful lifestyles and TTC is not as easy as it was for earlier generations - that much is sure!

Here's a quick Baby-Making 101 primer to help increase your odds of conceiving! (click the links to learn more about each of the categories listed)

Tracking Ovulation
Much of this website is dedicated to predicting ovulation. Ovulation is the period of peak fertility. Ovulation and pregnancy go hand in hand and the fertilization of the egg following ovulation leads to pregnancy. Therefore, awareness of your fertility cycle is the first step on the path to pregnancy. Every woman's cycle is unique (some cycles are short, some are long) and fertility awareness begins with monitoring your menstrual cycle and being attentive to ovulation symptoms.

Your most fertile period starts about 4 or 5 days before ovulation, and ends about 24 hours following the release of the egg. Because the sperm can live in a woman's body for 5 days or so, a woman's fertile period is actually longer than the 24 hour live-span of the ovum. To increase your chances of conceiving and becoming pregnant, predicting the days of peak fertility - and more specifically predicting the date of ovulation - is key.

Symptoms of Ovulation
Learn to "read your body" for natural signs of ovulation. These include changes in cervical mucus, changes in cervical position, and ovulation pains (mittelschmerz).

Cervical Mucus
Directly prior to ovulation, cervical fluid will increase greatly, and now the mucus will be semi-transparent, slippery, with the consistency of "raw egg white". This is your most fertile period and ovulation will take place at about this time.

Ovulation Pain (Mittelschmerz)
Ovulation signs include pains, or Mittelschmerz, which occur right around the time you ovulate. The pain is centered around your lower abdomen, and may last anywhere from a few hours to days. Ovulation pains can be used as a secondary fertility sign-that is, taken with the many other symptoms of ovulation, these pains will create a more accurate representation of your fertility.

Basal Body Temperature
As part of fertility charting, the BBT method requires you to monitor your temperature every morning, first thing! Body temperature changes are due to the increase of progesterone in your system. At the onset of ovulation, your body temperature will rise between 0.4°F and 0.8°F - or more. The physiological purpose of the temperature increase is to create a warmer, more fertile environment for the fertilized egg. A BBT thermal shift tells you that ovulation has taken place. It's important to record this data (as well as other symptoms of fertility) with a fertility chart. Observing patterns in you fertility charts allow you to predict peak fertility. Buy a basal thermometer (commonly mispelled as "basil thermometer").

Ovulation Calendar
An ovulation calendar allows you to understand your ovulation cycle. Like fertility charting, the ovulation calendar method allows you to chart your fertility and recognize general patterns in fertile and infertile phases. The calendar method involves keeping a written record and helps you predict ovulation by understanding the history of your menstrual cycles. An ovulation calendar or calculator, is most useful for women whose menstrual cycles are regular. For women with irregular cycles, we recommend the ovulation microscope.

Ovulation Tests - OPKs and Saliva Tests
Ovulation Predictor Kits (OPK) can be used during the middle of your cycle, prior to ovulation to anticipate and predict fertility. OPKs work by detecting an increase in luteinizing hormone (LH) in your urine. Before ovulation, you will notice a spike in LH. The rise in LH occurs approximately 36 hours before ovulation, indicating peak fertility. The best time to use these tests is between 2 and 8 p.m. First morning urine is not recommended. Having intercourse the day of the LH spike and the two days after should help ensure a successful pregnancy.

Ovulation microscopes test your saliva to help indicate your most fertile time of month. During ovulation, the rise in estrogen increases the salinity of your saliva. This alters the composition of your saliva and forms crystalline structures (ferns or ferning patterns) that can be seen through an ovulation microscope. Test saliva first thing in the morning, before drinking water, brushing teeth or eating. Record the results in your fertility chart. A combination of ovulation testing methods is the best way to focus on fertility.

Fertility Supplements
Newer to the ttc world, fertility supplements are scientifically validated to help support both male and female fertility. Combining the best of herbal science and western medicine, fertility supplements like FertilAid or Fertility Blend integrate key vitamins and minerals central to a healthy preconception with science-base herbal formulations that supports successful conception. With a safe history of usage, clinical data reveals that these nutritional ingredients are effective and successful in helping couples conceive.

Related Article: > TTC Checklist

Comments

My last menses was on Oct. 21st and I'm on a 28 day cycle. When is my best chance of making love and conceiving? My luteal phase is 14

Anonymous - Oct 30, 2009
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hi,i have been trying to get pregnant for 4 months now and my cycle is 27 days,when do i ovulate?hope to hear from you soon

Anonymous - Oct 28, 2009
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I am 25 yrs old.I want 2 build my carreer.I want 2 get married at the age of 31 and want to be pregnant at the age between 31-33.Will i face any problem if i want to be pregmant at this age?pls help me.

Anonymous - Oct 15, 2009
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My Husband and I have been married for 2years now and want a baby, we have been trying for nearly 4months now and nothing!..we are very young-me close to my twenties and him in early twenties, were pretty healthy and all and cant see why we haven't become pregnant yet,also I chart everthing like it says here and make sure I know when Im Ovulating and all that. But I have irragular periods, is this a problem?!.. If anyone has any answers for me that can be of some help, please tell me!!..

Rita - Oct 14, 2009
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Hi

I am 39. Married for the past 4 years. I wanted to get pregnant..Can u give suggestions?

AP - Oct 14, 2009
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hi, my period is irregular recently...
records of period : 26 Aug, tried to conceive after this but failed ...period came on 28 Sep ...
when is my next fertile period and when is ovulation date?
hope to get some answers.
thanks

Anonymous - Oct 08, 2009
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Sir/Madam,

Well just wanted to know as to when is/was my fertile period for the month of Sep. From what i remember i had my periods on the 4th june, then 4th july, in aug it was on 6th and then in september it was on the 12th. has my fertile period already gone or is it yet to come. kindly advise.

Anonymous - Oct 05, 2009
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heeey. i was told by my doctor if you set a pillow under your right hip laying on your side. it helps the sperm travel faster and it can reach to your egg. and doggy style always does the trick. and timeing is really important !
good luck and i hope this was helpful ! ;D baby dust to yoooouuu ! <3

Michelle. - Sep 25, 2009
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In regards to the women trying to figure out when ovulation occurs, knowing how long your cycles are is only the first step. Many things that you read about fertility will tell you that the average woman's cycle is 28 days long, with ovulation occuring on cycle day 14, though this information is not necessarily accurate. Ovulation can occur, truly, anytime from around cycle day 10 on. The time between ovulation and your period starting is also known as the luteal phase. This can also vary in length and needs to be atleast 10 days long to be considered healthy. The best thing that I can recommend is to start charting by taking your basal body temperature every morning at the same time before getting out of bed and putting into one of the many free websites online. One of the most popular is FertilityFriend.com. Your temperature before ovulation is lower than after you have ovulated, so therefore by charting you will be able to see if you are timing intercourse appropriately. This is beneficial if you have been trying to conceive for awhile, as doctors will not likely begin fertility counseling until you have been trying for atleast a year, given that both parents are healthy. Hope that this information will be able to help some of you! Happy babymaking. Smile

Anonymous - Sep 13, 2009
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i had my 2nd child may 2008 nd i saw my firt period around jan 2009 nd from that the changes.lately from june i saw it on the 20 to 24th,july 21st to 25t,aug 20th to 24th.i wish to knw my ovulation dates

oge - Sep 09, 2009
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Note that you are most likely to get pregnant if you time your lovemaking to occur on the days right before - and on - your ovulation date. Keep in mind that the projected ovulation date above is simply a “best guess” estimate based on your cycle date information. The most accurate way to pinpoint your most fertile time is through the use of urine-based ovulation tests or with a fertility monitor. We have partnered with Early-Pregnancy-Tests.com, the Internet’s leading supplier of preconception products since 2001, to offer low-cost, FDA-approved pregnancy and ovulation tests – with free same-day shipping.

 

Now that you’ve calculated your ovulation date using our ovulation calculator, we have a number of other helpful tools you can use to help increase your chances of conceiving.

 

  • Create your own personalized ovulation calendar! You can even provide an email address so that you receive email alerts of your most fertile days, when you can begin testing for pregnancy, and more.
     

  • Create your own personalized fertility chart! This is a highly accurate way to pinpoint your ovulation date that relies primarily on basal temperature charting. (Visit Early-Pregnancy-Tests.com for an accurate, inexpensive basal thermometer.)
     

  • Connect with others at our online community! If you have questions about trying-to-conceive – or if you just want to vent a bit – we have a wonderful, vibrant community of people who’d just love to hear from you.

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