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Baby-Making 101: A Primer for Getting Pregnant

How to Increase Your Chances of Conceiving Quickly

Conceiving a baby is not as easy as most people believe. We spend several years of our lives trying to avoid pregnancy through various methods (from the birth control pill to abstinence), and then all of sudden we want to about face and become pregnant overnight!

For a very lucky few, it takes a cycle or two. For most of us, it take months (the average TTC (trying-to-conceive) timeline is at least 6 months or so), and for others it may even take more than a year.

Our parents likely had us when they were in the early or mid 20s. Today, the average age of TTC women is closer to 30. Add work and increasingly stressful lifestyles and TTC is not as easy as it was for earlier generations - that much is sure!

Here's a quick Baby-Making 101 primer to help increase your odds of conceiving! (click the links to learn more about each of the categories listed)

Tracking Ovulation
Much of this website is dedicated to predicting ovulation. Ovulation is the period of peak fertility. Ovulation and pregnancy go hand in hand and the fertilization of the egg following ovulation leads to pregnancy. Therefore, awareness of your fertility cycle is the first step on the path to pregnancy. Every woman's cycle is unique (some cycles are short, some are long) and fertility awareness begins with monitoring your menstrual cycle and being attentive to ovulation symptoms.

Your most fertile period starts about 4 or 5 days before ovulation, and ends about 24 hours following the release of the egg. Because the sperm can live in a woman's body for 5 days or so, a woman's fertile period is actually longer than the 24 hour live-span of the ovum. To increase your chances of conceiving and becoming pregnant, predicting the days of peak fertility - and more specifically predicting the date of ovulation - is key.

Symptoms of Ovulation
Learn to "read your body" for natural signs of ovulation. These include changes in cervical mucus, changes in cervical position, and ovulation pains (mittelschmerz).

Cervical Mucus
Directly prior to ovulation, cervical fluid will increase greatly, and now the mucus will be semi-transparent, slippery, with the consistency of "raw egg white". This is your most fertile period and ovulation will take place at about this time.

Ovulation Pain (Mittelschmerz)
Ovulation signs include pains, or Mittelschmerz, which occur right around the time you ovulate. The pain is centered around your lower abdomen, and may last anywhere from a few hours to days. Ovulation pains can be used as a secondary fertility sign-that is, taken with the many other symptoms of ovulation, these pains will create a more accurate representation of your fertility.

Basal Body Temperature
As part of fertility charting, the BBT method requires you to monitor your temperature every morning, first thing! Body temperature changes are due to the increase of progesterone in your system. At the onset of ovulation, your body temperature will rise between 0.4°F and 0.8°F - or more. The physiological purpose of the temperature increase is to create a warmer, more fertile environment for the fertilized egg. A BBT thermal shift tells you that ovulation has taken place. It's important to record this data (as well as other symptoms of fertility) with a fertility chart. Observing patterns in you fertility charts allow you to predict peak fertility. Buy a basal thermometer (commonly mispelled as "basil thermometer").

Ovulation Calendar
An ovulation calendar allows you to understand your ovulation cycle. Like fertility charting, the ovulation calendar method allows you to chart your fertility and recognize general patterns in fertile and infertile phases. The calendar method involves keeping a written record and helps you predict ovulation by understanding the history of your menstrual cycles. An ovulation calendar or calculator, is most useful for women whose menstrual cycles are regular. For women with irregular cycles, we recommend the ovulation microscope.

Ovulation Tests - OPKs and Saliva Tests
Ovulation Predictor Kits (OPK) can be used during the middle of your cycle, prior to ovulation to anticipate and predict fertility. OPKs work by detecting an increase in luteinizing hormone (LH) in your urine. Before ovulation, you will notice a spike in LH. The rise in LH occurs approximately 36 hours before ovulation, indicating peak fertility. The best time to use these tests is between 2 and 8 p.m. First morning urine is not recommended. Having intercourse the day of the LH spike and the two days after should help ensure a successful pregnancy.

Ovulation microscopes test your saliva to help indicate your most fertile time of month. During ovulation, the rise in estrogen increases the salinity of your saliva. This alters the composition of your saliva and forms crystalline structures (ferns or ferning patterns) that can be seen through an ovulation microscope. Test saliva first thing in the morning, before drinking water, brushing teeth or eating. Record the results in your fertility chart. A combination of ovulation testing methods is the best way to focus on fertility.

Fertility Supplements
Newer to the ttc world, fertility supplements are scientifically validated to help support both male and female fertility. Combining the best of herbal science and western medicine, fertility supplements like FertilAid or Fertility Blend integrate key vitamins and minerals central to a healthy preconception with science-base herbal formulations that supports successful conception. With a safe history of usage, clinical data reveals that these nutritional ingredients are effective and successful in helping couples conceive.

Related Article: > TTC Checklist

Comments

I just turned 36 last week and I have been trying to become pregnant for a little over a year now. As you can see I have been unsuccessful and now I am getting to the point of depression, especially when everyone close and around is pregnant or just had a baby by mistake or when they were not even trying. I was on the pill for about 14 years and I am not starting to wonder if it totally killed my chances! Can you lose your fertility over the pill? I am very healthy and my grandmothers had 12 and 10 kids so you would think I could be a baby making machine but I am not. 3 months after I got off the pill my periods have been very normal ranging from 25-26 days in a cycle. I bought 2 or 3 ovulation kits and I never saw when I was ovulating until last month when I used first response. My 12th day seems to be my most fertile. Finally, I am going crazy over feelings of guilt wondering if I cannot become pregnant because I am a regular coffee and wine drinker? Could those be killing my fertility? Any thoughts / advise would be greatly appreciated.

Anonymous - Mar 14, 2010
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I miscarried after trying for a year and had my first period 6 weeks after. I ordered the OV-Watch right before my second period and used it and found out that I ovulate 16 days after my period started. So Im hoping to find out soon weather or not I was successful. I also used the soft cups right after baby making to hold the sperm in with less leakage so hopefully it will be baby time soon Smile

TTC - Feb 23, 2010
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I am 32 years of age.My cycle is irregular.I sometimes not see my period for about 3 - 4 months.I am frustrated because i don't even know when i will be ovulating.I would really appreciate your help.My hormones are inbalanced and i have been taking Parlodel and Folic Acid. I am in a long distance relationship.i am frustrated.

Anonymous - Feb 11, 2010
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Okay so alot of people are unsure how to track there cycle? Well lets get started with what I know!

The first day of your cycle is not the first day you see blood but the first day you have a flow! So if you are spotting all day and then wake up with a flow then that would be day one (1) of your cycle. However if the first day you notice blood and it is light and by that evening you have a flow even if it is already late in the day then that would be day one (1) of your cycle! the last day of your cycle will be the day before you got your flow! So if you get your period on the 15th and have a strong flow then that means that the 14th was the end of your cycle! Now count from day one (1) of your cycle to the last day and see how many days are in your cycle! Some womans cycle can and will usually always be about 40 days and that is okay too! For woman with longer 40 day cycles it is estimated that you will ovulate between day 16 and 21 of your cycle! After a few months of tracking your cycle you will know about how many days are in your cycle and that will help to predict your most fertile days and the day of ovulation! Make sure to keep track of when you have sex too!

I would reccomend to anyone TTC that they purchase a small 2 year planner that fits in your purse! Write down in a calendar day one of your cycle! this will make tracking your cycle and fertile days easy and is the most effective way to keep track!

For most woman with a 28 day cycle the most fertile days are day 10 through 16 of your cycle! It is recomended that you have intercourse every other day for that fertile window so that there is always sperm in the cervix! If you and your spouse wanna give it a go everyday well the more the merrier, however studies have shown that men need 48 hours to reach there strongest sperm count! so ladies go easy!

if anyone has questions about TTC well no guarantees but i am here to talk and help if i can! you can email me at tinytokenz@gmail.com

Raina - Feb 10, 2010
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I have been trying to conceive for five long year's now. I have done everything that everyone has told me to do. I have went to doctor's to see if anything is wrong. My husband of ten year's now has 2 children from a previous relationship and they are only a year apart, so I know he is fertile. I'm just not understanding why we aren't conceiving. I would really like for you get back with me. It depressing me a lot more latenly because my mom is ill and I know how much it would mean for her only daughter to give her a grandchild.

Anonymous - Jan 29, 2010
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I have been married for 2 years and trying to conceive, i can't even tract my periods. Sumtimes i dnt see my periods for 2 months and will see it on the 3rd month.

Anonymous - Jan 20, 2010
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I dont know how to calculate or know or feel my ovulation.Does it come b4 or after d period?cos my ovulation attimes 27 or 28 days.My periods last btw 3-5 days.pls assist me.my last period was 01/11,then d next was 27/11,then when is d ovulation starting?

Anonymous - Dec 05, 2009
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Been married for 2 years n want to get pregnant.FYI,my period went like this 26 Sept 2009 and next 27 Oct 2009 .The recent one is on 24 Nov 2009.Im almost 30.Pls tell me my next ovulation day and the healthiest and accurate way to conceive.

Anonymous - Nov 30, 2009
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hello sir/madam
in the month of october i got periods on 26th actually it has to come in 3rd of november but it has came early.so can u please tell me the fertility time to get pregnance.please advice me the process of getting pregnance we r trying a lot but we can't make it sure.my age is 22 and my husbands age is 32.is there any problem raising due to the age difference between us.please clarify my doubts.

Anonymous - Nov 21, 2009
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hi i been tryin to get prego for bout 2years now and i had a period last month on the 20 and it only last for bout 5days idk my cycle so can you please help me get prego

Anonymous - Nov 21, 2009
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Note that you are most likely to get pregnant if you time your lovemaking to occur on the days right before - and on - your ovulation date. Keep in mind that the projected ovulation date above is simply a “best guess” estimate based on your cycle date information. The most accurate way to pinpoint your most fertile time is through the use of urine-based ovulation tests or with a fertility monitor. We have partnered with Early-Pregnancy-Tests.com, the Internet’s leading supplier of preconception products since 2001, to offer low-cost, FDA-approved pregnancy and ovulation tests – with free same-day shipping.

 

Now that you’ve calculated your ovulation date using our ovulation calculator, we have a number of other helpful tools you can use to help increase your chances of conceiving.

 

  • Create your own personalized ovulation calendar! You can even provide an email address so that you receive email alerts of your most fertile days, when you can begin testing for pregnancy, and more.
     

  • Create your own personalized fertility chart! This is a highly accurate way to pinpoint your ovulation date that relies primarily on basal temperature charting. (Visit Early-Pregnancy-Tests.com for an accurate, inexpensive basal thermometer.)
     

  • Connect with others at our online community! If you have questions about trying-to-conceive – or if you just want to vent a bit – we have a wonderful, vibrant community of people who’d just love to hear from you.

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