AF came 4 days early.  That is definitely bizarre.  AF has NEVER been more than 1 day early.  My cycles have ranged from 24-37 days.  It seemed that it was normalizing, but then this happened.  I just don't know what to do anymore.  We're under 30, we're admittedly a little overweight, but according to our doctors, we are healthy, and pretty active.  We eat well.  We come from fertile families.  We don't know what we could be doing wrong.
 
It's very frustrating that there are all these tips and tricks that people try, and it works for them the 1st time, but not for us.  Here are the things we've tried: OPK's, propping up my bum after BDing, Preseed, yoga, Unscented Body Shop Massage Oil, Instead Softcups, Mucinex, boxers for DH, avoiding caffeine, bacon, etc.  We never drink or smoke, anyways, so that's not an issue.  We've even tried silly things, like BDing w/out our wedding rings, putting up a pic of kokopelli (Native American fertility symbol), reading a poem about Isis (Egyptian fertility goddess).  We're quiet, good people, and we totally deserve to be parents.  I'm glad DH and I are closer and more in love than ever, but we are so ready to expand our family of 2.  We talk about all the family vacations we'll have, the birthday parties we'll throw.  I just hope it comes true. 
 
The only things left to try are trying to BD in the a.m. (which is going to be crazy difficult) and Fertilaid.  But I'm just not sure I want to spend $50 on his and hers vitamins right now.  That would be a small price to pay for a baby, but we had a wedding recently, and one more soon, so we're tapped out for this month.  I also have my annual exam coming up soon, so I'll hopefully be able to talk to my doctor about my troubles.  I'm so terrified that we'll find something wrong with one of us (which, deep down, I just don't believe).  Which I know would be better, because we'll hopefully be able to fix the problem, but I just don't know how much more disappointment I can take.  The past few years have been rough. 
 
I know there are others who have it worse, and that's why I always feel so guilty letting it out.  But I do feel better ranting like this.  I'd been holding it in for a few days, trying to bottle it up!