Help! I don't know what to do. Haven't started yet but 3 pregnancy tests were neg.
posted on 09/29/2009

My DH and I have been trying to get pregnant this summer. The problem is since I've been off birth control since I got pregnant with my son in June of 2007, My cycles are not really that regular. For instance my cycles have been from 7/3/09, then 8/3/09, then 8/28/09. we've only been trying since the last one, but my period hasn't come and I've taken 3 tests and they were all negative. One on 8/25, one on 8/28, and one on 8/29 because I was supposed to start. It's been 32 days since my last period this time. I should also mention that I did have a little bleeding on sat 8/26 and Sun. 8/27, but the spotting on Sun. had red red blood and brown blood, even though it wasn't that much. I am getting frustrated because it's hard to figure out even with the signs when I'm ovulating. We had sex just about every other day since the 9/6-9-18 and I'm pretty sure I ovulated around 9/14-9/16 area. I did have ovulation cramps. It just doesn't add up that I'm still not showing positive in the pregnancy tests, but I'm not starting yet.

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posted on 10/18/09

Hi,

I'm new this is forum and i just had a similiar situation like yours and I feel you pain that's why, I wanted to write you. My period was supposed to start last Thursday, on the second day I missed my period, I did a pregnancy test and got a negative result. I tested again 4 days later and yesterday morning, got negative result. At first, i thought i got pregnant coz my 28 days cycle had been quite on time but my period finally came last night and i totally got disappointed like falling down from the sky. i would suggest you to wait and be patient..try not to stress yourself out because if you are really pregnant, you want to make sure you and the baby are in a good shape.

posted on 11/18/09

Hi mok,
I'm new to. I am on day 41 and no period. I just came off the pill in Sept. Had a period in Oct but nothing now. I felt like I was getting some Ovulation pains and did a predictor test and it was double lines for an LH surge. But I also have been charting my BBT and don't see a rise in temp...but have no base to compare it to. So I am totally confused. I called my doctor and the nurse said he could give me some meds to bring on my period so I can start over. But I am not sure I want to do that. Maybe I need to give my hormones a chance to kick in. I have been taking Vitex but I think that takes a few months to help. I am going to see a Chinese Accupunturist on Friday!