My husband is funny....he and I have decided we want to have a baby of our own (he has an 8 year old son from a previous relationship). However, he said he doesn't want me to get all "Monica and Chandler" on him (from Friends when they're trying to get pregnant-she gets crazy and tells him when it's baby making time). He says that will take all the fun out of it and make it more of a chore.
How do I get him more involved, i.e., let him know when it's "baby making time" without actually saying that? Yes, I know, sexy lingerie....but sometimes he doesn't feel very good (he has Lymes Disease) or I go to bed earlier than him, and it seems like it's never going to happen unless I fill him in on what's the right time. Does anyone else have issues like this?