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Goldfinch
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Whew. Just catching up ladies.

1) Julie - yay on the BFP!
2) Elle - I am sending you hugs (and I am not a big hugger so that is saying something)
3) I am also from the home of the Maple Leafs S. Ontario Canada so these hugs are coming a long way (perhaps even with a bit of maple syrup to sweeten them).
4) Seriously - triplets? Some people don't get that they are being insensitive until you tell them so. Perhaps it is something you need to say in a nice way such as "I appreciate that you have to make this hard decision and that you are putting your trust in me in talking about it but I would appreciate that you talk with someone else right now because it makes me feel angry and upset with you". Then see where it goes. Sometimes fessing up makes the air clear and things better again, rather than festering and turning to shit - ruining a perfectly awesome friendship.

As for me - I went to the doctor on the 22nd for tests and such and because we have been trying so far unsuccessfully - he sent me off for a whole array of blood/urine tests. But i don't get to know what is happening till Dec 20. Awesome.

The cramps that I get to have for most of the month in the extreme (Mrs. Berrocal you may know what I mean - but I get to have those all the time - yay) is according to Dr. just my special treat for going off the pill. Wonderful.

My DH was away for work and we BD'd acouple of days before he left (like day 14) and he came back on CD17 which according to the temp on CD18 was the big O. So we shall see what happens. Currently it is CD24 and I have some cramps.

Whatever. My husband is trying to be all sexy and cheery and asking if we got it right this time and I bit his head off saying I didn't want to get my hopes up so stop F***ing asking me already. I will tell you when I know what the hell is going on. I was hungry too so that didn't help. I am a total bitch when I am hungry. Rowr!

Well. I am glad to catch up with you all. I have been busy with DH away and cleaning and xmas shopping. I am pooped. Keep it real homies. I will check in sooner than i did this time.

Grey's Anatomy here I come. I also have the chocolate caramel werthers in my bedside table. Which I may just eat.

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Go you, Goldfinch.. Sometimes we all need to release a little frustration out, and our DHs are usually the unsuspecting victims, but it's all good. You gotta do what you gotta do!

AFM, I joined another group because everyone is gone suddenly. But I will definitely keep writing in here. My husband and I didn't do the BD on ovulation day because I have absolutely no sex drive for some reason. Normally I have a very high one (TMI sorry!) and am fine whenever. My DH even got mad at me, thinking that I was just being mean. I think it's because of all the stress of the holidays, plus school stress, plus he and I have been fighting a little bit Sad I think we are fighting from the stress but it's taking a toll on me. We argued the other day about our first born's middle name. I say Charlotte, he says NO!!! I don't see why not, that name is beautiful. Anyway, random ranting.. I'm really not sure why we fight so much, but it would really help if he wasn't so stubborn and sure that he's ALWAYS right. Whatever happened to the "yes, dear" thing?!

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I took a little while off because I am trying not to focus so much on the actual "trying" part. It is so frustrating because DH is only home on certain days and if they don't fall during my ovulation time than it just upsets me. Plus, my periods have been fluctuating, so I'm not real sure when I am ovulating. I have left it in God's hands.

As for having no sex drive...I feel you. I have been feeling that way for several months now. I think it is the stress of moving up here, but I don't know. We still BD though since we both want a child.

My DH feels he is always right too. I don't think your DH had any right to get mad at you. I think he should have been more understanding. I mean we aren't just here for sex. If you don't wanna have sex that is your business and I think you husband should have asked you why you didn't want to as opposed to getting mad at you. I'm sorry you are stressed out and that you and DH are fighting. I sure hope it gets better for you Smile

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having some weirdness posting... tells me I triggered the spam filter. will try a couple more times.

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can't post properly some sort of problem.

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That happens to me all the time :/ I usually have to wait until the next day to post Sad Maybe you can email Elizabeth?

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