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CCBabyDust
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um, so CD30, no AF, not even signs of her. No cramps, nada. I have had WiCKED PMS.... realized today that I am CD30....decided to poas (OPK is all I had) wayyy after fmu, but lo & behlod, +opk. um.... please someone tell me I am nervous for no reason. Puzzled
Going to get a hpt.... will report back later....

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Oh exciting! I guess it would mean that you don't have to worry about the TTC rollercoaster next time around... Everything happens for a reason and it will all work out fine either way.
Will check in a bit later to see how you got on.
Is there a reason why you were waiting for another 3 months to TTC other than the age gap thing?

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omg!!! I can't wait to hear results!! I had the same thing happen last month, I peed on an opk that I had leftover and it was positive, I freaked, cause I was late...I ended up being 17 days late....weird but not pregnant...I hope you are though!!!!

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Got a digital, took it this afternoon & "not pregnant" appeared. SO I guess that's my answer. I just have a wierd long cycle for some reason this month... strange.
As for the waiting- we are just trying to space out thier ages by about 2 years & DH's leave he can take from work Wink lol
It's funny... in an ironic sort of way- that I freaked at first, but then was sad I got a bfn... ohhhhh well. We're not ttc, but not preventing in anyway...SO I suppose at this point, what shall be shall be Smile

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Oh I am a little disappointed for you! Isn't it strange how on one hand you don't want it to take a long time but also it is a bit scary to consider doing the whole thing all over again.

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to add to my previous entry- It's also interesting that this situation happened now... I have been seriously re-considering ttc in march. IDK that it's the best move right now for us as a family, us financially- for me physically- ... it's so hard to know what's right as far as spacing kiddos out.... everyone and I do mean EVERYONE has an opinion to what is good or bad or indifferent. The only thing DH & I know is that we want one more.... mostly so James is not an only child. (DH is an only & he wishes it wasn't that way)
We wanted them at least 2 years apart- however, a bit longer would be FINE by me... IDK, IDK, IDK... that's my new mantra. IDK. Becuase in all honesty, it dosen't seem like there is any real significance to the whole ttc (ttc to me is more like a phrase that implies "I (we) want a baby & we're doing the best we can to make that happen") Because at the end of it all, we aren't really in control, are we? It's God. (or chance/destiny, whatever you happen to believe in)
So here we sit, planning all this ttc stuff & I can plan all I want, but I am not in control. That's one of the greatest lessons I have learned here...Life is intriguing that way. And I am coming to realize that I just have to be ok with it. I am not in control. What will be, will be. Smile

* hugs & baby dust!*

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Thank you Kiwi Smile

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I go through the exact same thought process CC. I think no matter what you decide and what happens it will be fine. It will just be life! It's the unknown that makes it interesting Wink

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So this is the OPK that I took this morning, NOT fmu.... wth? bad test? I am now CD31. I feel like af sorta cramps, been wearing a pantyliner alll day waiting for her to show up.... ummm..... ??? With the digital that I took when I got preggo with James it was fmu, I think on CD 29 or 30.... I had a frer that I used first then confimed the next day so I could see the word "pregnant" on the screen, LOL, I do remember that! hahaha
Anyway, this should link direct to the opk test....

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y12/Crystal2443/IMAG4092.jpg

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that is odd. is there any chance you have ovulated late? do you bbt chart?

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