A miscarriage is one of the most heartbreaking experiences that any woman can go through. As women begin grieving the loss of their little one, the question they want answered is, “why?”
So what should you expect once you meet with your doctor to try and figure out why you miscarried? First, your doctor will probably do a complete physical, talk with you about your medical history and discuss any risk factors that may pertain to you and your spouse.
Afterwards, there are many options available in the quest of learning as much as you can about your body and its ability to maintain a healthy pregnancy. Some of the procedures available are:
The good news is that there are many tests that can be done to help pinpoint the reason for miscarriage. In addition, many women who experience a miscarriage go on to deliver a healthy baby soon after!
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I know exactly what you have gone through. My husband and I got engaged last year and found out I was pregant in February. I didn't know I was pregnant until I went to the Dr. for some cream or a shot for the posion ivy I had gotten on our camping trip. I was so scared because I had drank and smoked, so I quit everything cold turkey. Went to the Dr. for my 12 week check up and they couldn't find a heart beat. No, I didn't bleed, I had to have a D&C but I could feel and hear my heart break into a thousand pieces. Luckily I have a wonderful supportive husband. After the D&C in April, I went on the pill June then we decided to try again. No luck so far but they tell you if you want something aad enough it will happen when God thinks it's the right time. I am a little worried because my periods have been "different" but have to stay positive. I wish nothing but the best for you and hope and pray you get your little person soon.
I am so sorry about your heartbreaking experience! I hope you are surrounded by lots of love and support!
Elizabeth
Sending lots of baby dust your way!
The very first time I got pregnant was April of '08, I was 21. I got married in the beginning of the year, so we were trying for a while. I was so happy, I thought it could never be done. I dont get my period every month ((sometimes its years)).. I wasn't working at my job long enough to have health insurance (I was working there 6 months, and the requirement is 9 months) so I called up Planned Parenthood and set a date to get insurance. They called and re-scheduled it for the next week. I went to work the next day (I washed dishes at a restaurant, so there was no back breaking work or anything) and I started bleeding heavy. I was so scared. My husband took me to the ER. 6 HOURS later, an ultrasound, pelvix exam, blood and urine samples later, they said I had a miscarriage. I was roughly one month along. I never felt so dead inside. I get a bill from the ER, a little over $1,600 ...I called PP to see if I could still get the health insurance to pay the bill, they said NO since I wasnt pregnant anymore. So I'm left with this bill.....this reminder...
and what was worse.....the doctor who treated me, was 5 months pregnant. When they examined me, she said I had a tilted uterus, which made it even harder to get pregnant. It is now November '09, and I havn't gotten pregnant since, even though I keep trying. I try to stay positive....
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