Pre-seed. It's a great product.

I'm trying the "instead" cup this month...we'll see what happens.

Well, none of these have worked for me yet, but I'll post them anyways. Maybe it will help someone else!

Preseed Lubricant (love it, but I ran out and didn't order again - I picked up the Unscented Body Shop massage oil mentioned on another thread, but I can't find any other info about it, so I'm not sure about it)

Instead softcups - to hold the sperm in. I used them 3 cycles, but for some reason, NOW they're not fitting properly...they've been falling out, and scooping the sperm our with them. DH says to relax, because millions of people have gotten pg before softcups. But what if it's scooping out his swimmers???

Mucinex - to hopefully thin my CM

OPKs-turns out I ovulate day 15-18. Prior to testing, I was stopping our BDing too early!

I've been using the softcups, Preseed, OPKs from this site, and BBT. They worked for me once because I got pregnant in August, but unfortunately miscarried at six weeks. So now I've decided to try the big guns, and I ordered a Cue II fertility monitor (the original of the OvaCue they're now selling on this site) along with the vaginal sensor. I just figured that with all the money I've been spending on OPKs for the past year and a half I probably could have already paid for the monitor. Plus there's the fact that I suspect PCOS and from what I've read women with PCOS can have extra LH in their system, making it hard to read the OPKs accurately. The Cue II tests for electrolytes in your saliva. I also figured that since DH and I were thinking of trying the natural methods of birth control after we finally achieve baby #1, it would help us pinpoint my ovulation so that we can AVOID it until we're ready for #2. Hopefully it will save us a lot of money in the long run.